Leading up to our Sangha Circle discussion this week, I’ve found a fantastic podcast by Domyo Burk in this very topic!
219 – Being the Only Buddhist in Your Family – Part 1 – The Zen Studies Podcast
The podcast explores the challenges faced by individuals who are the sole practitioners of Buddhism within their families. It highlights three key factors that contribute to the tension in these relationships: the religious beliefs and devotion of family members, the level of involvement with Buddhism, and the negotiation of the impact of one’s practice on the family.
Reactions from family members vary depending on their religious affiliation, ranging from confusion and hurt to skepticism and concerns about cult involvement. Family members who are indifferent to religion may struggle to understand or relate to the significance of Buddhist practice. The extent of involvement with Buddhism, including time spent on practice and the visibility of religious activities, also influences family dynamics.
Balancing family commitments and Buddhist practice can be challenging, as it requires careful negotiation. Moreover, the discomfort or alarm caused by the visibility of Buddhist practice may strain familial relationships.
While it is important to respect the reactions of family members, maintaining healthy relationships involves finding a balance between personal practice and family dynamics.